From the “I’m not ready for this!” dept.: my ex has sent me a friend request on Facebook. I don’t plan on adding him because I’m trying to get on with my life and I really don’t need Jon getting in my business (I can just imagine him asking who so-and-so is and where do I know them from, etc. etc.). Plus there are some people who knew both of us who have made less than complimentary comments about him to me privately, and honestly I don’t have the energy right now to deal with that. I should just not let it bother me and add him anyway (because he is, after all, the father of my children) but living a life without him in it -even on Facebook- is the whole point of moving here and having my own life. I don’t feel like making explanations about why I do some of the things I do…to Jon or anyone else. And the idea that Jon would get in touch with our youngest son (who is on my Facebook list), who has no real memory of him, kinda concerns me. I don’t know what to think. Thoughts y’all?